Thoughts

Should


Many people use this word and I can guess that most of them use it a lot out of context, don’t know really what it means, or know exactly what it means and use it to remove their accountability to what they said when using it.

The misuse comes in more in politics when politicians make promises or tell the populace what they want to hear. “Your children should get good education.” Sounds like they are saying that your children deserves good education and will get it right? Use the following definition to put it into context:

should  (shd)
aux.v. Past tense of shall

  1. Used to express obligation or duty: You should send her a note.
  2. Used to express probability or expectation: They should arrive at noon.
  3. Used to express conditionality or contingency: If she should fall, then so would I.
  4. Used to moderate the directness or bluntness of a statement: I should think he would like to go.

I’ll give you one.. IF the main meaning is that it is past tense word then can we say that when someone uses shall it means that the time for it has passed?

  • “Your children should get a good education.”  sadly it is too late.
  • “Everyone should have an equal opportunity at succeeding in life.” sadly they don’t and more than likely never will.
  • “You should be getting paid $xxxxxxxx.xx” but we don’t and won’t.

Basically, should is used when someone is telling you what you deserve but will not get from them. Mostly used by politicians and other people in similar positions.

I know there are different ways other than the above but it is not a word to signify something definitive..

  • used for saying or asking about the right or sensible thing to do or the right way to behave – Parents should spend as much time with their children as possible.
  • used for saying what is correct, especially when the situation is different from this – The total should come to $728.50.
  • used when you have strong reasons for believing or expecting something – That was disappointing, we should have won that game easily.
  • used for saying what someone thinks is important – It is essential that we should protect the environment.
  • used for describing a fact or event that someone has a particular feeling or opinion about – It’s hardly surprising that people should be suspicious of politicians’ promises.

We use ‘should’ for giving advice.

  • You should speak to him about it.
  • He should see a doctor.
  • We should ask a lawyer.

We use ‘should’ to give an opinion or a recommendation.

  • He should resign now.
  • We should invest more in Asia.
  • They should do something about this terrible train service.

‘Should’ expresses a personal opinion and is much weaker and more personal than ‘must’ or ‘have to’. It is often introduced by ‘ I think’.

  • I think they should replace him.
  • I don’t think they should keep the contract.
  • Do you think we should tell her.

 

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